Former President Carter and wife Rosalynn are shown on a walk in their hometown of Plains, Georgia. (Matt McClain/Washington Post via Getty Images/File)
Former Democratic President Jimmy Carter turned 100 years old on Tuesday, making him the first U.S. president to live for an entire century.
Carter, the 39th president, has been known for several “firsts.” He was the first U.S. president born in a hospital, the first Naval Academy graduate to become president, and the first president to visit Sub-Saharan Africa officially. Now, he holds the record as the first U.S. president to reach 100.
Carter is currently receiving home hospice care in his hometown of Plains, Georgia, where he has lived since his presidency ended in 1981. He has been in hospice care for nearly two years. Sadly, his wife, Rosalynn, passed away last year at the age of 96.
Jill Stuckey, a family friend of the Carters for over 30 years and the superintendent of the Jimmy Carter National Historic Park, said, “It’s funny, President Carter has done so much and usually succeeds at everything. But the one thing he hasn’t been great at is hospice.” She added, “He just keeps living, and we’re so happy about that. So if he’s not good at something, we’re glad it’s hospice.”
When asked what makes Carter different from other presidents who lived to an old age, Stuckey said it was his “tenacity” — his determination and will to keep going.
Jill Stuckey told Fox News Digital that Jimmy and Rosalynn Carter always wanted to live as long as possible and stay healthy so they could help as many people as they could. She said they ate healthy meals, exercised every day, and worked hard to take care of themselves so they could keep helping others. “That’s what President Carter is showing today — that all those efforts really make a difference.”
The White House also put up a birthday message for Carter on the North Lawn to celebrate his 100th birthday.
Jill Stuckey said that celebrations for Carter’s 100th birthday started on Saturday in Plains, when the town held its annual peanut festival. “We celebrate peanut harvest season here in Plains, and it happens around the same time as President Carter’s birthday every year, so we usually celebrate them together,” she said.
Jill Stuckey also mentioned that on Tuesday, for Carter’s birthday, there will be more events in Plains, including a ceremony at Plains High School where 100 new citizens will take the oath. This is special because both Jimmy and Rosalynn Carter went to that school.
After the ceremony, there will be a flyover to honor former President Carter, organized with help from Secretary of the Navy Carlos Del Toro. Later in the afternoon, Plains will hold a ribbon-cutting ceremony for new statues dedicated to the Bill of Rights and the Constitution.
In celebration of Carter’s birthday, volunteers in St. Paul, Minnesota, came together to build 30 new homes over five days. Country music stars Garth Brooks and Trisha Yearwood were among the participants.
“You’re one of the most influential statesmen in our history,” President Biden said in a video released ahead of Carter’s birthday on Tuesday.
Over the weekend, Grand Ole Opry member and country music legend Charlie McCoy played a special rendition of “Georgia On My Mind” to honor the former president.
Cathie Skoog, a former member of the White House Communications Agency, said, “I remember the first time I saw him, and I was in awe. That feeling has always stayed with me. You can meet presidents all the time, but the first time is always the most special.” She added, “He didn’t care what people thought. He just did what he believed was right for the country.”
During his time as president, Carter focused on protecting the environment, improving human rights, and making the American education system better. He made big changes, like updating the civil service system, opening up the airline industry to more competition, and creating the Energy and Education departments. He also helped make cars safer by requiring both seat belts and airbags.
Carter’s time as president also had its challenges. There was high inflation, an energy crisis, and failed efforts to free American hostages who were held in Iran. His Secretary of State, Cyrus Vance, eventually resigned because he disagreed with how the administration handled the hostage situation.
During the Iranian Revolution, oil prices in the U.S. went up sharply. In July 1979, President Carter gave a speech where he said Americans were losing confidence in the country because of rising inflation and the energy crisis.
He said, “The signs of this crisis of spirit are everywhere. For the first time, most Americans think the next five years will be worse than the last. Two-thirds of people don’t even vote. Workers are less productive, and Americans are saving less than people in other Western countries.”
Carter added, “We need to face the truth, and then we can change direction. We must believe in each other, believe we can govern ourselves, and have faith in the future. Restoring that faith is our most important job now.”
My Bride Handed Me a Note Asking Me to ‘Say No at the Altar’ — It Sounded Crazy, but I Trusted Her Plan
Before we stood at the altar, my bride had instructed me to say no. She asked me to trust her, and I did. What happened next was something no one saw coming. Not even me.
They say you should expect surprises on your wedding day. Mine came in five words that nearly stopped my heart.
Say no at the altar.
Before I tell you what happened next, let me start from the beginning.
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“Don’t you feel like the luckiest guy in the world?” Emily asked as we sat surrounded by wedding brochures, color swatches, and venue pamphlets on our living room floor.
“Oh, yeah. I do!” I chuckled, picking up a photo of an elegant outdoor venue with string lights hanging from oak trees.
Emily nudged my shoulder playfully. “Save those exact words for the ceremony, Adam.”
I wrapped my arm around her shoulders and pulled her close.
“This one looks perfect,” I said, tapping the outdoor venue photo. “I can picture you walking down that aisle already.”
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Emily leaned her head against my chest.
“Me too,” she said. “Though I’d marry you anywhere. Even the courthouse.”
“I know you would,” I said. “But you deserve the wedding you’ve been dreaming about.”
And she had been dreaming about it practically her whole life.
I met Emily three years ago at work. She was the new account manager, and I was immediately drawn to her warmth.
While other executives charged into meetings focused solely on metrics and deadlines, Emily always arrived early to ask how people were doing, remembering details about their lives that most would forget.
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When Ben from accounting was going through a divorce, Emily quietly organized meal deliveries to his house for two weeks. When Maria’s son was in the hospital, Emily covered three of her presentations without being asked.
She didn’t do these things for recognition. Most of the time, people didn’t even know about it.
That kindness is what made me fall in love with her. In a world where people are quick to look out for themselves, Emily looked out for everyone else.
We got engaged after dating for a few months, and I couldn’t have asked for a better partner.
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Emily was super excited to plan our wedding.
Every time we went over details, she’d pull out an old, worn photo album from her childhood, flipping through pages of magazine cutouts, princess gowns, and carefully scribbled “future wedding ideas” in a child’s handwriting.
“I’ve dreamed about this day since I was little,” she’d say. “And I’m so happy it’s with you.”
Planning our wedding together made me more certain than ever that deciding to marry Emily was the best decision of my life.
The only cloud in our otherwise perfect planning process was Emily’s stepmother, Margaret.
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At our engagement dinner, she’d examined Emily’s ring with narrowed eyes and asked if the diamond was “real or one of those lab-grown ones.”
When Emily showed her the venue options, Margaret sighed loudly and muttered something about “wasting money on frivolous things.”
Emily never complained about Margaret’s behavior, but I noticed how her shoulders tensed whenever her stepmother entered the room.
Still, she insisted on including Margaret in the wedding preparations, saying, “She’s been my dad’s wife for fifteen years. It’s important to him.”
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The big day arrived faster than I could have imagined.
Standing in a side room of the venue, adjusting my boutonnière for the tenth time, I felt nothing but excitement. In less than an hour, Emily would be my wife.
But then everything changed.
We had just sat down at the reception table, hands entwined, when she slipped a small folded piece of paper into my palm.
It had five simple words that made my heart skip a beat.
Say no at the altar.
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I turned to her, confused, and whispered, “What?”
“Just trust me,” she whispered back, squeezing my hand. “Do it.”
I wanted to argue. To demand answers. But something in her eyes made me pause. Emily wasn’t scared. She wasn’t panicked. She had a plan.
And I trusted her.
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The moment arrived.
We stood before the officiant as he asked me, “Do you take Emily to be your lawfully wedded wife?”
I hesitated just long enough for a ripple of confusion to move through the guests. Emily’s eyes locked with mine, giving me an almost imperceptible nod. My mouth went dry as I answered.
“No,” I said.
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I closed my eyes, hoping I didn’t make a mistake by trusting Emily. What was going on in her mind? Why did she ask me to say no?
Suddenly, a laugh interrupted my thoughts.
It came from the far side of the room, and it wasn’t just any laugh. It was cold. Sharp. Cruel.
I turned toward the source, and there she was.
Margaret. Emily’s stepmother.
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She clapped slowly as a smug, victorious grin stretched across her face.
“Well, well, well,” she purred. “I told you. I told you all.”
The stunned silence that followed was deafening. I glanced at Emily, whose face remained surprisingly calm. She gave my hand another reassuring squeeze, which somehow steadied my racing heart. Whatever was happening, she had anticipated it.
Margaret let out a dramatic sigh and turned to Emily’s father, shaking her head.
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“We paid so much for this wedding,” she scoffed. “I told you it was a stupid idea. A complete waste of money. But no, you had to go along with her little fantasy.” She gestured wildly at the decorated venue. “And for what? To watch her get humiliated? I could have told you this would happen!”
Emily’s father just stared at her. The disgust and disappointment in his eyes were unmistakable.
Then, Margaret turned back to Emily.
“You really thought he’d marry you?” she sneered. “I told you, sweetie. No one wants you.”
Something inside me snapped. I took a step forward, ready to defend Emily, but she placed a gentle hand on my arm.
Her eyes told me to wait.
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Meanwhile, Emily’s father stood frozen. He couldn’t believe Margaret could say something like that.
“Thank you, Margaret,” Emily said confidently.
“For what?” Margaret asked.
“For showing your true colors.”
Margaret stared at Emily with wide eyes.
That’s when I understood what Emily’s plan was about. At that point, I felt so proud of her. So proud that my brave Emily hadn’t just planned a wedding. She’d planned something much bigger than that.
I watched as she stepped forward.
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“Since we’re all sharing our thoughts today,” she began, her eyes locked onto her father’s, “let me finally tell you the truth about Margaret.”
A hush fell over the room.
Emily turned slightly, addressing everyone, but her words were meant for her father most of all.
“You’ve always believed she was just ‘strict’ with me, that she was trying to ‘teach me responsibility.’ But what she really did was tear me down at every chance she got.”
Margaret rolled her eyes, but Emily’s voice only grew stronger.
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“I was never ‘good enough.’ Never ‘grateful enough.’ Never ‘pretty enough.’ She made sure I felt small and unwanted… like a burden you were forced to take care of after Mom died.”
I watched Emily’s father’s face transform as each word hit him.
How had he never seen this?
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I thought of all the times Emily had downplayed Margaret’s behavior, saying it “wasn’t worth causing family drama.”
Emily turned back to her father, and this time, there was pain in her voice.
“I told you, Dad. I told you how she treated me when you weren’t around. How she called me pathetic, how she laughed at my dreams, and how she told me no one would ever truly love me. And every time I tried to make you see it, she’d twist it and make me look dramatic.”
Emily’s fingers curled into fists at her sides.
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“So, when she told me you were wasting your money on this wedding and that Adam would leave me at the altar, I knew exactly what she was hoping for. She wanted to humiliate me. To finally prove to you that I was as much of a failure as she always said I was.”
She let out a slow breath and lifted her chin.
“So, I gave her exactly what she wanted. I gave her a moment where she thought she had won.”
A ripple of realization spread through the guests.
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“I knew that if Adam said no, she wouldn’t be able to hide her reaction. She wouldn’t be able to resist rubbing it in my face.”
Emily’s gaze didn’t waver as she looked back at her father.
“You never believed me before. But you believe me now, don’t you?”
Her father nodded.
He stood with his shoulders slumped, as if he was carrying the weight of everything he’d done. He’d dismissed his daughter’s pain for years and chose peace over the truth.
Now, he’d finally realized how wrong he was.
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Margaret scoffed, still trying to salvage her dignity. “Oh, please. He wasn’t going to marry you. I just called it before it happened.”
Emily’s smile widened.
“That’s where you’re wrong.” She turned to me. “Because he is going to marry me.”
I grinned. “Damn right, I am.”
I stepped forward and took Emily’s hands in mine, overwhelmed with love for this woman who had endured so much and still remained kind.
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Margaret wasn’t expecting this.
“You—” she started, but Emily’s father suddenly stepped forward.
“We’re done, Margaret,” he announced.
“What?”
“You humiliated my daughter at her own wedding,” he said as his voice shook with anger. “I should have seen it earlier.”
Margaret spluttered, grasping for control, but it was already over.
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Two of my groomsmen, who worked as security guards in their day jobs, stepped forward without being asked. They gently but firmly escorted Margaret out as she shouted insults.
As the doors closed behind her, the tension in the room dissolved. Emily’s father approached us with tears in his eyes.
“Emily,” he whispered, “I’m so sorry.”
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She hugged him tightly. “I know, Dad. I know. It’s okay. You don’t need to apologize.”
After a moment, Emily exhaled and turned back to me.
“So… where were we?”
I grinned, dropped to one knee, and said, “Will you marry me?”
The crowd, now understanding what had happened, erupted in cheers and applause.
And this time, when the officiant asked if I took Emily to be my wife, I shouted yes.
That’s how I finally married the kindest woman I’ve ever known. My wife, my love, Emily.
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