Raising children these days can be a task on its own. Young parents don’t just have to hear opinions from family members but also have to put up with random strangers on the internet commenting on their parenting methods.
Jordan Driskell is a young father of five quintuplets. His quintuplets happen to be 5 years old. As you can imagine, looking after 5 children who are the same age can be quite taxing. Especially at 5-years-old when a child is curious and likes to explore.
31-year-old dad, Jordan Driskell decided to find a creative solution to his problem. He bought leashes meant for children to control his rambunctuous little kids when they are in public together.
In the past, Driskell had a 6-seat stroller that they used for their big family. However, that grew tiresome very quickly because the kids would be bothered when inside it. The stroller was also incredibly inconvenient to take anywhere.
This helps the little kids get to wander and explore their surroundings when the family goes out without their dad losing sight or control of them and hence keep them safe!
Driskell posted a video of the family’s outing to the acquarium that caused a lot of negative feedback directed towards the parents. The video of the kids on leashes went viral with over 3 million views. Hundreds of people commented about how the children were not animals and hence should not have been leashed.
Others commented, “If you can’t manage the pressure, don’t have so many kids.”
Other offered disdain masked as advice, “Can’t you just properly train your children?” Discuss to them why fleeing is risky.”
Dr. Deborah Gilboa, an expert in parenting and adolescent development had a different opinion. She does not think a leash will make your child think they are an animal. And if the alternative to a leash is to stay at home, then of course, the leash is a much better option!
Dr. Gilboa said a leash is a great tool for younger children or neuro-diverse children to be controlled in a public environment. However, she said that if a neurotypical child is not off a leash by the age of eight and nine, and hence has not developed their listening skills, that might be troublesome.
By then, parents should be able to effectively communicate with children verbally instead of relying on tools like leashes.
Parents should have the freedom to parent the way they want without facing unneccesary judgement from society.
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I Accidentally Grabbed the Wrong Luggage at the Airport — What I Saw Inside Made My Jaw Drop
I Accidentally Grabbed the Wrong Luggage at the Airport — What I Saw Inside Made My Jaw Drop
When Clara realizes she has grabbed the wrong suitcase at the airport, she doesn’t expect anything unusual. But as she opens it, her jaw drops in shock. Among the clothes lies a mysterious envelope that will change everything.
“Bella, make sure you grab the right one,” I called out, half-jokingly.
“Don’t worry, Clara,” Bella laughed. “I know which one’s mine.”
A woman standing near a car with her luggage | Source: Pexels
I never thought a simple suitcase mix-up could lead to such an emotional rollercoaster. It all started at my parents’ house.
Mom’s birthday weekend was lovely. My sister, Bella, and I had a great time catching up with our parents. But now, it was time to head back to reality.
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We were in the front yard, stuffing our suitcases into the trunk of our Uber.
Our identical suitcases, I should add.
Mom had gifted us these suitcases many Christmases ago, and it had never been a problem… until that day.
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Mom came out to wave us off, a warm smile on her face.
“Safe travels, girls. Call when you get home.”
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“Do you have everything? Tickets, phones, chargers?” Dad asked, helping us load the luggage.
“Yep, all set!” I said, giving him a quick hug.
Bella and I got into the car, and as we drove off, I felt a familiar pang of sadness.
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Leaving home always made me a little nostalgic. After I moved out, college barely gave me any free time. So now my visits to Mom and Dad’s were limited to holidays and special occasions.
I cherished those rare moments, whether it was Thanksgiving, Christmas, or just a random weekend when I could break away.
A family enjoying a Thanksgiving dinner | Source: Freepik
“I wish we could stay longer,” I sighed, staring out the car window.
“I know,” Bella agreed. “But we’ll be back soon. Cheer up!”
A woman looking out the car window | Source: Pexels
We chatted about the weekend and our plans for the next visit. Bella and I live in different states, and we were already excited about our upcoming visit.
The drive to the airport was smooth, but I couldn’t shake the feeling of already missing home.
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Finally, we reached the airport, checked in, and went our separate ways to catch our flights. I arrived back at my apartment later that evening, exhausted but content.
As I opened the suitcase in my living room, expecting to see my clothes neatly packed, I froze.
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Staring back at me were Bella’s shoes and clothes. I plopped down on my couch, chuckling about the suitcase mix-up.
I started pulling out clothes and shoes, realizing these were all Bella’s things. “Typical,” I muttered, shaking my head.
But then, something else caught my eye.
A woman looking at clothes on a hanger | Source: Pexels
An envelope lay nestled between Bella’s clothes.
My heart skipped a beat when I saw the familiar handwriting: “Open When Clara Is Not Around!”
It was unmistakably Mom’s handwriting.
A person writing on an envelope | Source: Pexels
With a deep breath, I opened the envelope.
“What the…?” I whispered as I saw what was inside.
I sat back and stared at the envelope, memories flooding my mind.
A woman opening a gray envelope | Source: Pexels
Just a few days ago, I had asked my parents for help with buying a new car.
They had shaken their heads, saying they were low on money and believed I could handle it since I was an adult. I had accepted it, even though it hurt a bit.
A white car on display in a showroom | Source: Pexels
Then, I remembered how Bella had been scrolling online and showed us a photo of a bag she really liked.
She had received a lot of attention for it, and I had brushed it off as a normal sibling thing.
But now that I saw money inside the envelope, my worst fears were confirmed.
A bag and a sandal on display | Source: Pexels
I have always been insecure that Mom and Dad like Bella more. So if this money was for her, I was right all along.
I paced around my kitchen, the envelope of money sitting on the counter. My mind raced with questions. I had to know what was going on.
Finally, I picked up my phone and called Bella.
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“Hey, Clara!” Bella answered cheerfully. “Did you get my stuff?”
“Yeah, I did,” I replied, trying to keep my tone light. “Looks like we swapped suitcases. I’ll mail your things back as soon as possible.”
“Same here,” Bella said. “I’ve got your stuff too. I’ll send it out tomorrow.”
“Thanks,” I said, hesitating before bringing up the envelope.
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“By the way, did you know there was an envelope in your suitcase?” I asked.
There was a brief silence on the other end.
“Envelope? No, I didn’t know about that.”
A woman talking on her phone | Source: Freepik
“I thought maybe Mom put it there for you.”
Bella sounded genuinely surprised. “Really? That’s weird. Maybe Mom sneaked it in before we left. Did you see what it’s for?”
“No, not really,” I lied, feeling uneasy. “Just thought you might know.”
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“Sorry, sis, I have no idea,” Bella said.
“Yeah, it’s weird,” I said, feeling more confused than ever. “Talk to you later.”
“Later,” Bella said, hanging up.
A young woman using her phone | Source: Freepik
I put my phone down and stared at the envelope. Bella sounded clueless, but I couldn’t shake the feeling that something wasn’t right.
Was she being completely honest with me?
I decided I needed to call my mom and get to the bottom of this. I had to know what the money was really for and why it was hidden in Bella’s suitcase.
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I sat on my bed, the envelope still in my hand, and took a deep breath. Then, I dialed Mom’s number.
“Hi, sweetheart!” Mom answered cheerfully. “How was your trip back?”
“It was fine, Mom,” I replied, trying to keep my voice steady. “I need to talk to you about something…”
“Yes?”
An elderly woman sitting comfortably at home with her gadgets | Source: Pexels
“I found an envelope in Bella’s suitcase with your handwriting on it. It said, ‘Open When Clara Is Not Around!’”
Mom went totally quiet as if she was thinking what to say next.
“Oh, that’s strange,” she said eventually. “What was in the envelope?”
I lost my cool.
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“Money, Mom! A stack of money,” I said, feeling a lump form in my throat. “I thought you said you didn’t have any money to help me with a new car! What’s going on?”
I could hear her sighing.
“Money? Oh, Clara, I’m so sorry. That envelope wasn’t meant for Bella. It was for you.”
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“For me?” I repeated, my mind spinning. “But why hide it in Bella’s suitcase? Why not just give it to me?”
“Sweetheart, it was supposed to be a surprise,” Mom explained gently.
“What?”
Mom started explaining what had happened.
A woman smiling and talking on her phone | Source: Pexels
“Honey, your dad and I wanted to help you get a new car. It was all Bella’s idea that we’ll surprise you. We only remembered at the last moment that we hadn’t given Bella the envelope with our share. She contributed, too. Your dad must have mixed up the suitcases by accident, and well, you ended up with the money.”
“But like, I mean… Didn’t you guys say you were a bit tight on money?”
A red bow on a new car | Source: Freepik
“Oh, sweetheart, don’t worry about that. We managed. And it’s only now that I’m getting Bella’s text that I shouldn’t tell you everything! Oh, dear!” she laughed. “Sorry, hun. Didn’t want to hurt you,” Mom continued.
“So, you weren’t giving Bella money for that bag she wanted?” I asked.
Mom chuckled softly. “No, Clara. The money was always meant for you. We wanted to show you that we believe in you and support you, even if we didn’t have much to give at the moment.”
A woman holding a stylish bag | Source: Freepik
I didn’t know whether to cry from relief or laugh at the misunderstanding.
“Mom, I’m sorry I doubted you and Bella. I just… I’ve been feeling a bit insecure lately,” I said, feeling like I had been a terrible daughter.
“Oh, honey,” Mom said, her voice filled with warmth. “We love you so much, and we’re proud of you. Bella and I just wanted to make things a little easier for you. Now, enjoy that money and get yourself a nice car. This is for you and only you.”
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“I will,” I said, feeling a weight lift off my shoulders. “I love you, Mom. Thank you so much for this.”
“Love you too, Clara,” she said before we hung up.
I sat there for a moment, overwhelmed with emotions. I had been so quick to assume the worst, and now I felt a mixture of relief and guilt. But more than anything, I felt grateful for my family’s love and support.
I picked up my phone and dialed Bella.
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“Hey, Bella. I just talked to Mom. Thank you for the surprise. It means a lot to me.”
Bella laughed. “No problem, Clara. We just wanted to help. I’m glad you found the surprise, even if it was a bit mixed up!”
I couldn’t help but chuckle. “I was so stupid to act like that,” I said. “Thanks for everything. Love you so, so much!”
Have you ever ended up in a silly yet heartwarming situation like this?
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