Ashley Graham is one of the most relatable models and public figures out there. After becoming the first-ever plus-size model to be featured on the cover of Sports Illustrated, she has made it her mission to spread the body positivity message. And since Graham is keeping it real in every aspect of her life, she also held nothing back throughout her pregnancies, showing what it really takes to be a mom.
Being a mom to a boy and 2 twins, Graham is spreading a message that every mom has a right to choose whether breastfeeding is right for them, regardless of society’s expectations.
In a recent interview, Graham got candid about the consequences of being pregnant that every woman goes through but prefers to not be too vocal about. The model said she also considered keeping some things to herself, admitting, “Especially with how your body is changing when you’re pregnant, and stretchmarks, and the saggy skin, formula, breastfeeding. Cause there’s also this whole thing with people telling you how to feed your child.”
Ashley proceeded to explain her experience with breastfeeding: “With my first kid, I was like, ’I can only breastfeed! This is the right way!’ Then I had the twins, and I was like, ’I’m not doing this. This is not working here. Both of you want both of these? This is a lot of work.’ So I stopped breastfeeding when they were 5 months, and I gave them the best formula that I could find… And these little guys are so strong and so happy.”
Ultimately, Graham believes it’s up to every mom to decide between formula or breastfeeding based on their personal experience. She drove her point home, saying, “I don’t think we should be telling people how we should be feeding our kids.”
The model then became even more relatable, sharing her physical struggles after giving birth. She said, “Your body just fills up with nutrition, and the baby sucks it out of you. And then the baby comes out and all of a sudden you’re just fully depleted of everything, so your hair falls out, you get acne, I mean, the weight doesn’t come off.”
Graham explained her candidness, saying, “I like to represent myself as someone who’s just happy with who I am. And I had a journey, like, it is a journey, body confidence, being okay with who you are is a journey… I don’t ever want to lie.” And we’re all grateful for the model sharing her experiences with us, as it makes mothers around the world feel seen and heard.
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The tiny twins talk, but when you hear them, you’ll melt. Delightful.
Lily and Lucas were two small twins who lived in a charming village surrounded by rolling hills. Their hearts were as huge as the sun that shone down on their town every day, even though they were small in stature. But what really made them unique was their capacity to converse in whispers so delicate that anyone who heard them could not help but smile.
A family of woodland animals had taken up residence in a secret glade that Lily and Lucas discovered one day while exploring the magical forest on the outskirts of the settlement. The twins’ soft murmurs drew the animals, who greeted them with wide arms—or paws, or wings.
As Lily and Lucas got to know their new friends better, they discovered that the forest was about to face a threat. Envious of the beauty of the forest, a wicked sorceress plotted to use magic to make the trees wither and scare the animals away. The twins were determined to defend their new home, so they set out to collect the one item that would be able to lift the sorceress’s curse: a rare flower that would only bloom once a year when the full moon shone.
There were many perils on their trek, including dark caverns full of terrifying monsters and perilous ravines. But Lily and Lucas persevered because of their unshakable friendship and their capacity to interact with even the most unexpected of allies.
They eventually located the elusive flower, its petals gleaming with magic, beneath the light of the full moon. They grabbed it from its stem with quivering hands and dashed back to the glade, where the animals were assembled to confront the sorceress.
Holding the flower high, Lily and Lucas moved forward as the sorceress unleashed her evil spell. By shattering the curse and bringing the woodland back to its former splendor, its brightness broke through the gloom.
The forest’s animals and the inhabitants, who had previously misjudged the twins’ strength, rejoiced as the little twins ultimately emerged as heroes. Despite the numerous experiences they experienced, they always believed that they could conquer any obstacle as long as they had each other and their whispers.
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